BDD is a less understood condition, and many people conceal it due to shame and fear of judgement. The condition is distressing, and sufferers are often hesitant to seek help. 

What is Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)? 

Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is a condition where someone becomes intensely preoccupied with perceived flaws in their appearance — flaws that may be very small or not noticeable to others. With BDD, the distress can be overwhelming and can interfere with daily life, relationships, work, and confidence. 

How does BDD manifest? 

BDD often shows up as:

• Thinking about a specific feature (skin, nose, hair, body shape, teeth, facial symmetry) for hours a day

• Feeling intense self-consciousness, shame, or fear of being seen

• Believing people are staring, judging, or noticing the “flaw”

• Cancelling plans, avoiding photos, mirrors, bright lighting, or social events

• Feeling compelled to “fix” the issue — but relief never lasts

Many people describe it as exhausting: your day becomes organised around trying to feel okay in your body.

Examples of BDD- related thoughts 

Below are common areas of the body that tend to attract concern, but this list is not comprehensive. Here are some examples of how one’s internal thoughts might sound:
• “My nose is too big or small or not symmetrical.”
• “My face is asymmetrical. It looks wrong.”
• “My nose is too big for my face.”
• “My hairline is receding”
• “My arms look huge.”
• “My stomach sticks out.”
• “My thighs look abnormal.”
• “My pores are enormous.”
• “There’s something wrong with the texture.”
• “It’s shaped wrong.”
• “I look small.”

Most of the time, the defect is minor or absent. The thoughts themselves do not signal any problem; however, the preoccupation and distress involved suggest that it is affecting the individual. 

Possible Causes and Risk Factors

There is no single cause of BDD, but several factors can contribute:

• Biological factors: Differences in brain chemistry or functioning

• Genetics: Having a close relative with BDD, OCD, anxiety, or depression may increase risk

• Personality factors: Perfectionism, high self‑criticism, or sensitivity to rejection

• Life experiences:

  • Bullying or teasing about appearance

  • Trauma, rejection, or abuse

  • Cultural or social pressure to look a certain way (e.g., social media, beauty standards)

BDD can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background.

Diagnosis

A mental health professional (such as a psychologist or psychiatrist) can assess for BDD by asking about:

• How much time you spend worrying about your appearance

• How strongly you believe there is a defect

• How these thoughts affect your daily life, work, school, and relationships

• Whether you engage in repetitive behaviors (checking, comparing, covering, skin picking, etc.)

Diagnosis is not about whether a flaw “exists” but about how much distress and impairment it causes.

Treatment for BDD

• One size may not suit all. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is the gold standard treatment for BDD. However, many people also do not see results with CBT alone.
• For those who find CBT may not have helped, may wish to consider working on the root cause of BDD. These are often shame-based experiences that EMDR calls a small “t” trauma or may even be rooted in attachment- shame or conflicts very early in life. The core pain of worthlessness and shame of being defective might be central to this.
• EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) Therapy or Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) Therapy may be what you may wish to try. Both are trauma and attachment-focused therapies. 

EMDR Therapy for Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

While Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is commonly recommended for BDD, many individuals also carry deeper layers of shame, humiliation, bullying, or attachment trauma that fuel the intensity of appearance-based distress.

This is where Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy can be helpful.

BDD is often not just about a body part.
It can be linked to:

• Early experiences of teasing or criticism

• Humiliating social moments

• Attachment wounds or rejection

• Trauma involving visibility, exposure, or comparison

• Repeated relational shame

In these cases, the body becomes the surface where unresolved emotional memory is stored.